the uncertainty facing my husband as he continues his 15 month wait (and counting) for a diagnosis.

My husband, who has been healthy, active and physically strong for much of his life, has been felled by a mysterious set of symptoms including fatigue and nausea. It has made life unbearable at times, as he battles the healthcare system for attention and concern. Living in the grey has been really hard for him, someone who thrives on solving problems and fixing things. It has forced us to reexamine our assumptions about our relationship, work hard to communicate better, and strive to provide stability and optimism for our kids while facing a constant set of unknowns. The pandemic has also made everything harder. Your writing and podcast has honestly made a huge difference in my life as I have walked this road alongside him.