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      Hi, I’m Kate. I’m a Duke professor, podcaster, and author with a single mission: giving you permission to feel human. After years of being told I was incurable, I was declared cancer-free. But there’s no going back. I am forever changed by what I discovered: life is so beautiful and life is so hard. For everyone.

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    • Everything Happens.

      Are you living your best life now? Not always? This is a podcast for you. Duke Professor Kate Bowler is an expert in the stories we tell about success and failure, suffering and happiness. She had Stage IV cancer. Then she didn’t. And since then, all she wants to do is talk to funny and wise people about how to live with the knowledge that, well, everything happens. 

      See All Episodes
      Suleika Jaouad

      Survival Is a Creative Act

      Listen Now Survival Is a Creative Act
      Erin & Ben Napier

      Everyone’s From Somewhere

      Listen Now Everyone’s From Somewhere
      Stacey Heale

      The Aftermath of the Aftermath

      Listen Now The Aftermath of the Aftermath
      Kimberly Williams-Paisley

      Where The Light (Still) Gets In

      Listen Now Where The Light (Still) Gets In
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      Let’s untangle our culture’s obsession with toxic positivity and self-help, shall we? Kate studies the cultural stories we tell ourselves about success, suffering, and whether (or not) we’re capable of change. She is the author of seven books including three instant New York Times bestsellers.

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      Everything Happens for a Reason

      (And Other Lies I’ve Loved)

      Have a Beautiful Terrible Day!

      Daily Meditations for the Ups, Downs & In-Betweens

      No Cure for Being Human

      (And Other Truths I Need to Hear)

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      Our goal with Everything Happens is to create rich language and vibrant community that sustains us when life comes apart. Below, you’ll find categories that may be good starting points for you. Inside are a mix of podcasts, blessings, support guides, and bonus resources that we hope will be useful.

      ALL RESOURCES

      Types

      BLESSINGS
      DEVOTIONALS
      SUPPORT GUIDES
      COURSES
      FREE DOWNLOADS
      Discussion Guides
      FOR MINISTRY

      Topics

      ILLNESS
      GRIEF
      WHAT NOT TO SAY
      RESILIENT FAITH
      INSPIRING LIVES

      NUANCED HOPE
      CARING AT HOME
      CARING AT WORK
      COMPLICATED FAMILIES
      MOVING FORWARD

Raising a Rare Girl by Heather Lanier

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a) you are loved. b) life is absurd. c) it’s hard to be a human.

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Here`s a woman who makes me very proud to be a Canadian right now.

@sophiegregoiretrudeau believes with all her heart that health -- mental, emotional, physical -- is a human right. And that truly regulated people are *better citizens.* I loved her big laugh, big heart, and forceful compassion for all of us who wonder how to stay grounded in this age of light apocalypse. She`s a fierce advocate for mental health, a gifted author, and the only person who could make me do breathing exercises on the main stage at @aspenideas in front of everyone.

Stay tuned for a podcast conversation with her about the relationship between wellness and democracy, and how to double down on our own peace. But also, she will make you *laugh* and then try a calming exercise because WHO DOESN`T NEED THAT RIGHT NOW?!

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Here's a woman who makes me very proud to be a Canadian right now.@sophiegregoiretrudeau believes with all her heart that health -- mental, emotional, physical -- is a human right. And that truly regulated people are *better citizens.* I loved her big laugh, big heart, and forceful compassion for all of us who wonder how to stay grounded in this age of light apocalypse. She's a fierce advocate for mental health, a gifted author, and the only person who could make me do breathing exercises on the main stage at @aspenideas in front of everyone.Stay tuned for a podcast conversation with her about the relationship between wellness and democracy, and how to double down on our own peace. But also, she will make you *laugh* and then try a calming exercise because WHO DOESN'T NEED THAT RIGHT NOW?!

Mosquito bites and humidity are “out” for all of summer.

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Mosquito bites and humidity are “out” for all of summer.

On this blessed Canada Day, I wanted to share its beauty, clarify things for cartographers, and just generally show off this gorgeous country.

(This is also a PSA for safety. No one is getting attacked by a moose on my watch.)

Time spent here is always a gift. Zach gets to hang out with his grandparents, and I get to experience mitten temps and then sudden tank top weather in June, so it’s pretty much a win all the way around.

If you’re ever on Fogo Island, the @fogoislandinn is a MUST. I can’t stress enough that I would live there. Forever.

So here’s to rocky coastlines, kind strangers, and the kind of beauty that makes you pause mid-sentence.

Grateful for the land, the people, and the quiet miracle of belonging—no matter how far you’ve wandered. 🍁

Happy Canada Day, friends. Come for the views, stay for very hot water.

#canadaday

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On this blessed Canada Day, I wanted to share its beauty, clarify things for cartographers, and just generally show off this gorgeous country.(This is also a PSA for safety. No one is getting attacked by a moose on my watch.)Time spent here is always a gift. Zach gets to hang out with his grandparents, and I get to experience mitten temps and then sudden tank top weather in June, so it’s pretty much a win all the way around.If you’re ever on Fogo Island, the @fogoislandinn is a MUST. I can’t stress enough that I would live there. Forever.So here’s to rocky coastlines, kind strangers, and the kind of beauty that makes you pause mid-sentence.Grateful for the land, the people, and the quiet miracle of belonging—no matter how far you’ve wandered. 🍁Happy Canada Day, friends. Come for the views, stay for very hot water.#canadaday

I`m not entirely sure I did it right, but this little tart was delicious.

Happy Monday.

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I'm not entirely sure I did it right, but this little tart was delicious.Happy Monday.

In a world where Everything Happens...

May we all remember that no one, not one, has it all together.

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In a world where Everything Happens...May we all remember that no one, not one, has it all together.

TGI(almost)F AM I RIGHT?!

Which medium sad gnome are you?

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TGI(almost)F AM I RIGHT?!Which medium sad gnome are you?

It’s just June.

I may or may not have responded to a work email with “Love you!”

You’re doing great. ✨

Drop an emoji for how your brain feels right now. Please and thank you.

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It’s just June.I may or may not have responded to a work email with “Love you!”You’re doing great. ✨Drop an emoji for how your brain feels right now. Please and thank you.

The world feels shaky, like it might tip over. But here are some recent saves full of reminders to be brave, create (literally anything), and take small stabs at hope—because even now, fear and creativity can ride tandem, and trying still counts.

1. @prest.works/@jonacuff
2. @iuliastration
3. @lobsterandpearls/@backtomotherpearl
4. @poetryrise
5. @tinypricksproject and @kellycorrigan
6. @mytherapistsays

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The world feels shaky, like it might tip over. But here are some recent saves full of reminders to be brave, create (literally anything), and take small stabs at hope—because even now, fear and creativity can ride tandem, and trying still counts.1. @prest.works/@jonacuff 2. @iuliastration 3. @lobsterandpearls/@backtomotherpearl 4. @poetryrise 5. @tinypricksproject and @kellycorrigan 6. @mytherapistsays

 

If you are reading this you have great eyesight. But also, thanks for being a person with me. The world is strange and hard for soft-hearted humans, but I think you’re a delight.

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  • ABOUT

    • Meet Kate

      Hi, I’m Kate. I’m a Duke professor, podcaster, and author with a single mission: giving you permission to feel human. After years of being told I was incurable, I was declared cancer-free. But there’s no going back. I am forever changed by what I discovered: life is so beautiful and life is so hard. For everyone.

      ABOUT KATE

      Get to Know Me

      HUMAN
      AUTHOR
      PODCAST HOST
      SPEAKER

      How to Connect

      NEWSLETTER
      BOOKING
      EVENTS
      CONTACT
      PRESS
      Kate Bowler sitting in front of books

  • PODCAST

    • Everything Happens.

      Are you living your best life now? Not always? This is a podcast for you. Duke Professor Kate Bowler is an expert in the stories we tell about success and failure, suffering and happiness. She had Stage IV cancer. Then she didn’t. And since then, all she wants to do is talk to funny and wise people about how to live with the knowledge that, well, everything happens. 

      See All Episodes
      Suleika Jaouad

      Survival Is a Creative Act

      Listen Now Survival Is a Creative Act
      Erin & Ben Napier

      Everyone’s From Somewhere

      Listen Now Everyone’s From Somewhere
      Stacey Heale

      The Aftermath of the Aftermath

      Listen Now The Aftermath of the Aftermath
      Kimberly Williams-Paisley

      Where The Light (Still) Gets In

      Listen Now Where The Light (Still) Gets In
  • BOOKS

    • Books

      Let’s untangle our culture’s obsession with toxic positivity and self-help, shall we? Kate studies the cultural stories we tell ourselves about success, suffering, and whether (or not) we’re capable of change. She is the author of seven books including three instant New York Times bestsellers.

      All Books

      Everything Happens for a Reason

      (And Other Lies I’ve Loved)

      Have a Beautiful Terrible Day!

      Daily Meditations for the Ups, Downs & In-Betweens

      No Cure for Being Human

      (And Other Truths I Need to Hear)

  • RESOURCES

    • Resources

      Our goal with Everything Happens is to create rich language and vibrant community that sustains us when life comes apart. Below, you’ll find categories that may be good starting points for you. Inside are a mix of podcasts, blessings, support guides, and bonus resources that we hope will be useful.

      ALL RESOURCES

      Types

      BLESSINGS
      DEVOTIONALS
      SUPPORT GUIDES
      COURSES
      FREE DOWNLOADS
      Discussion Guides
      FOR MINISTRY

      Topics

      ILLNESS
      GRIEF
      WHAT NOT TO SAY
      RESILIENT FAITH
      INSPIRING LIVES

      NUANCED HOPE
      CARING AT HOME
      CARING AT WORK
      COMPLICATED FAMILIES
      MOVING FORWARD