28 Days of Loving More: A Calendar
Oh hey there!
This month, we’ll sit with the paradoxes of love: its joy and grief, its risk and reward. What does it mean to love when it costs us something? How do we keep showing up for each other—and for ourselves—when it’s messy and imperfect? Can we make peace with our flaws and still choose to love anyway?
We’re calling it 28 Days of Loving More. For each day, we’ll share one small, doable way to make the world a little more loving—for yourself, for someone else, or for the place you call home. It’s not about grand gestures or long-term commitments, but the kind of work that stretches us and saves us from our worst selves and our loneliness. The kind of work that begins with one small act at a time.
So join us this month as we pause, reflect, and find the courage to stay with The Hardest Part of love.
Not because it’s easy, but because it’s worth it. Are you in?
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The Lives We Actually Have
100 Blessings for Imperfect Days
Warm and witty blessings found within the struggles of our shared humanity, from the New York Times bestselling authors of Good Enough.
Formatted like a prayer book, The Lives We Actually Have is an oasis and a landing spot for weary souls, with blessings that focus on the full range of human moments: garbage days, lovely days, grief-stricken days, and even (especially) completely ordinary days.
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Hi, I’m Kate. Let’s untangle our culture’s obsession with toxic positivity and self help, shall we?
I am a Duke professor, podcaster, and author with a single mission: giving you permission to feel human. (And letting you have whatever weird or boring hobbies you can’t explain to strangers. Do I love roadside attractions and exotic potato chip flavors? Yes. More than I should say.)
I believe that the world would be a better place if we took apart the well-meaning clichés we use when life is hard. (What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger? Maybe what doesn’t kill you might try again tomorrow. 🙂 )
After years of being told I was incurable, I was declared cancer-free. But there’s no going back. I am forever changed by what I discovered: life is so beautiful and life is so hard. For everyone.
My team at Everything Happens and I create free resources like this one with you in mind. We are determined to create a gentler world for everyone who wants to admit that they are not always “living their best life.” If that’s you, bless you. You’re in the right place.
